There must be a million Opinions by a gazillion people on everything ranging from your Wedding Date, Wedding Venue, and Wedding Decor to Even the kind of Dessert you put up on the dinner counter. We know it can get overwhelming and we know that one can get confused, here is a list of 10 Wedding Tips that we want to tell to the Brides-To-Be.
- Don’t Let Others Pressure You
Keep it modest and use daring styling for your satisfaction. Do not get bothered by people’s remarks and opinions. It is your Big Day, planning a wedding for 20-30 people is a whole lot more fun than doing a Massive and Expensive Wedding Affair
- Most Guests care about catering more than Decor
Even though it is the wedding of your dreams, Your guests might care about the Wedding Decor very little. All that the Guests care about is the Food and the Booze. Do not burn your wallet on Decor and try to keep it as toned down and To the point as possible. Make the decor about yourself and what you like more than what the guests would think. Believe us the Guests do not care about that Flower Decoration that you put all your heart on.
- Skim through your Guest List
Now we know in Indian Weddings we have to invite our relatives and the relatives of those relatives. But take this, for example, to feed a person at your Wedding costs at least 600-700 rupees on average. Ask yourself this ‘Would I buy this person a 700 Rupees dinner on an ordinary day’ If the person on the guestlist doesn’t pass this test you genuinely need not invite them. Make the Wedding about yourself and not about the guests.
- Your wedding gown should be tailored to you, not the other way around
There is a lovely wedding gown waiting for you. Don’t worry about the quantity of outfits you’re trying on. Try with different styles. Don’t be concerned about the weight of the gown. Have a look at a few people. In the end, only your point of view matters. Instead of purchasing a wedding gown that you hope to fit into since it is not made for you, have your wedding gown custom-made for you. Finally, remember to have fun and minimise stress as much as possible!
- Keep your Wedding Ideas to yourself
The Planning Process becomes as difficult and complex as more people get involved in it. The first image that you have in your head while planning your wedding is the best iteration of your wedding don’t let it get contaminated by other people and other people’s versions of a Dream Wedding. Just get it through some important people like your Spouse, your siblings and your parents. In the end, do what you think is the right thing to do even if it is not the norm. The second you get a million other ideas from other people, you’ll start guessing your sweet-innocent vision and before you know it your wedding would be alien to what you envisioned it like.
- Take it all in, It is your WEDDING!
Throughout the wedding, stop a few times randomly, take a deep breath, look around and take it all in, create your snapshots of the day in your head, and try to remember what it all feels like to be there, at your Wedding.
- You do not want to look like someone else on your wedding
Before you book that MUA or Buy that Wedding Dress, make sure that you on the day of your wedding do look like yourself and not like an entirely different person. Your essence of personality should not fade away from your bridal look. Try to look the best version of yourself that goes unsaid but that does not mean you completely make yourself over and do not look like yourself. If you are planning to take a bold step for your look on the day of your wedding then think twice and perhaps try it months before your wedding just to be sure it fits in well with you.
- Intimate and Modest is the new Grand
Go bold but try to make it as close relatives only as possible. Just think and call your close friends and family if you do not want it to be an extravagant affair. A destination wedding may be a saviour too as the people who are not able to show up would just say ‘No’ whereas, in a local wedding, they still might show up. Because let’s be honest no one would take a flight or a train to go to a wedding of a distant relative or a coworker that you barely talk to.
- Think before you book that wedding Hall
Choosing a Wedding date is a tough task, to ensure that it remains a special date. Several venues offer significant savings if you hold your wedding on a weekday instead of the weekend. Wedding venues account for the majority of wedding expenses.
Consider your options before reserving the wedding location of your choosing. Think about factors like venue size, location and your guest list before finalising your Wedding Venue. You can Book a Wedding Farmhouse in Noida which is apt for your Guest List length.
- Save Money at all places but a Photographer
A Photographer is going to capture the Essence of your Wedding. Do not save up money in the place. Splurge on a photographer who is going to ensure the best Service to you. You have to do comprehensive Research and understand different kinds of portfolios before you decide on the wedding Photographer. Make sure that the style of photography matches the pictures you want at your wedding. Photography is going to be top of the line if it is going to be the niche of the photographer himself.
Conclusion
Wedding planning may be a stressful affair, but remember that it is your special day and it should represent your personality and flair. You can make your wedding more private, personal, and unforgettable by following these top 10 wedding tips and tricks. Remember, don’t allow people to put you under pressure, keep your wedding plans to yourself, and prioritise what is most important to you. Ultimately, it’s your wedding, and it should express your love and dedication to one another.
